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Глава 1. Правда о том, на что способна мать

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Глава 2. Какую власть она имела над вами

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Глава 3. В кругу семьи: волновой эффект

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Глава 4. Приспособление: как ее поведение сформировало вас

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Глава 5. Проблески понимания: паттерны и партнеры

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Глава 6. Как осознать бессознательное

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Глава 7. Восстановление сил

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Caldwell, Jon G., Shaver, Phillip R. Promoting Attachment-Related Mindfulness and Compassion: A Wait-List-Controlled Study of Women Who Were Mistreated During Childhood // Mindfulness, 2015, 6 (3), pp. 624−636.

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Глава 8. Как перенаправить свою жизнь: делаем выбор

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Глава 9. Исцеление и продолжающаяся работа над собой

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